Here’s a news flash, someone asked me how long I
have been single and I said “two years, what’s up?” and the first thing he
replied to me was, “what? Does that mean you haven’t had sex in two years?” LOL
really. I said I’m single for two years and that was the first thing that came
into his mind. I was baffled. Well I guess that’s how people think about stuffs
nowadays eh? No surprises there.
Anyway, this 30 day challenge thing has turn
into a god-knows-how-many-day challenge. I know I am procrastinating but on my
defense I really have no idea what to say about drugs and alcohol, I mean,
especially when I come from a culture where this two things are considered a
big taboo, moreover I’m a girl which kind of mean that I should stay in the
kitchen and make sandwich or something, definitely not out partying or
drinking. I don’t do drugs so I’m just gonna pretend like this challenge is
about alcohol.
I honestly have no idea what to say, until last
weekend where I went out with my group of friends from work. Great night and it
got even better when I heard about a guy friend walked into the girl he was
seeing shagging his roommate. Well not
literally like a good thing but it did put a light bulb over my head so, thank
you (you know who you are ;)) if you’re reading this, and I’m sorry you have to
walk into them like that.
My point here is, that alcohol, as great and
fun as it is, it is absolutely dangerous because it makes you lose control of
things. You might make out with a friend and risk ruining your friendship, you
might sleep with someone like your bf’s roommate (urgh! *roll eyes*), and you might even ruin your
best friend’s birthday like I did last year.
What happened you ask? Well, last year I went to Manchester for the
bestie’s birthday and somehow I had way too much to drink. Not that I drink a
lot (really, mum), but I just generally not that a good drinker and I was kind
of upset at that time so alcohol seemed like a great idea. Obviously it wasn’t.
Next day I sobered, had a talk with the bestie only to realized that I just
made her worst nightmare come true. I hated myself for it and have pledged not
to drink as much anymore. I know it’s not like a big deal drinking too much
getting drunk and doing stupid things, they do say we only live once and I am
really not THAT old. But I hate risking anything just because I want that
moment of pleasure with alcohol, especially not friendship or relationship, if
relevant.
So yeah, I guess that concludes my opinion on drugs
and alcohol. I would rather not drink than knowing that it’ll risk me
losing things that I treasure. Though drinking can be fun sometimes when it pairs
up with some drinking games. :p
To end this almost pointless post, I leave you
with some pictures from last Friday.
Ending this post, like a boss. ;) |
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